Showing posts with label Joe Rogan. Show all posts
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Saturday, April 27, 2024

The natural endpoint of social media groups and platforms

 

A thought just occurred to me that I'll share here, based on noticing yet another disturbing trend in following social media.  It's nothing as dire as AI interaction and fake profiles poisoning the general experience, instead something not troubling at all in comparison.  

It's this:  a lot of types of social media exchange seem to take up repeating, narrow forms, which I'm claiming here could relate to the groups heading towards their own natural end.  


It sounds like pure speculation based on nothing at all, right?  Exactly, but let's go there.

Is there even a need to describe how this relates to Facebook use, and groups?  Essentially all of the subjects I follow, and all the related groups, feel a bit played out.  People have experienced finding shared interest channels and new discussions within the last half dozen years or so, and then those groups evolved to go a bit quieter, or to drift off topic, with lowest common denominator sort of input ruining things, or ads, if moderation didn't adjust for that.  

Lots of what look like interesting news stories on Facebook are really just click-bait ads, where you need to keep scrolling to eventually find out that the title doesn't match the story conclusion.

I'll get back to more FB specifics after considering problematic issues with two other platforms.


Quora


For a platform / site like Quora it's a little more complicated.  That's a question and answer theme site, like an expanded version of the old Yahoo Answers.  Of course the first 10,000 obvious questions have already been asked and answered, in dozens of forms for most.  And monetization attempts have came and went, each negatively impacting the feel of the site more than they seemed to earn the site owners revenue.  

I'm really talking about something else here though, the feel, and natural shifts in forms of use.  Consider this example:




Sean Kernan is the most popular "Quoran," with over a billion content views, 10 million in the last month.  His current profile tagline is Quality over Quantity, and then oddly his last post is about Leonardo DiCaprio dating young women.  This could've been an insightful topic answer 10 to 15 years ago, but almost no one has now failed to already see mention of this subject in social media posts, if they are active anywhere at all.

All of that is fine; the point I'm slow to make here is that his formula for writing popular content has been noticed by many others, and broadly adopted.  It takes up a catchy theme that can be treated in a short space, like this, uses an eye-catching image to draw attention, makes one or two trivially insightful points, and closes with twist ending.  In this case that Reddit chart (mentioned) is the insightful content, and Sean also mentions that women much younger than him probably wouldn't share common perspective with him, and communication might be a problem.

The problem?  As more and more people adopt this form there is less and less to read in feed streams of popular answer posts.  The form gets repetitive, which many people must notice.  These just aren't substantial, informative answers, but they seem to represent the current norm, over subject experts talking about what most people don't already know.  In Sean's next post he answers a question about what he would wish for and it's to be able to fall asleep quickly.  Fine, quite practical, and as always well written, but this is how Quora goes now, not saying much, as Facebook group posts generally don't.  

At least the form is not infuriating, trading off catching interest by triggering contempt, a pervasive form of trolling across all social media now.  Here's an example of that I see from time to time (on Facebook):




Initially posts following this theme about mixed martial arts by comparing less daunting looking fighters with actors and such, but in this case this is just trolling.  Conor McGregor was a UFC champion at 145 and 155 pounds, and Brock Lesner was a heavyweight UFC champion, and stand-out college wrestler.  Conor couldn't beat Brock in any kind of combat competition at all, especially a street fight.  It's a "shitpost," funny because it's not true kind of theme.  Then it could be regarded as funny that most people commenting take it seriously, at least ostensibly.

  

These two forms are example of natural evolutions of communication / post forms that would eventually lead to disinterest in those platforms.


Isn't it clear why?  In one case trivial forms of light communication work to gain notice and viewership, but those would become boring.  In another example posts with no real content, just falsely communicated meaning, would eventually draw no reaction at all, after someone responds to dozens of such posts.


Reddit


Reddit is dying of another cause; let's look into that.


The Joe Rogan sub probably started out as a fan group, people talking about interesting guests or ideas covered on that podcast, but now it has evolved into a Joe Rogan hate group, or mostly related to trolling.  It has a million followers, so a good number, but the top 100 Reddit subs all have at least 11 million followers.

The first post that comes up on pulling up the group feed (just now) is about Akash Singh, a so-so comedian who is really the sidekick of Andrew Schulz.  I do find him a bit annoying, but it must be hard for comedians to carve out their own space in a crowded entertainment segment, so in a sense you can't fault him for being edgy in whatever ways he tries out.  Comments on this recent thread aren't about hating Joe, which are more typical, but all trash Akash instead:




He's not all that funny, as comedians go, but that's fine.  He works well as a podcast co-host, as a sort of straight guy, and some of what he says is insightful.  He seems like an ok guy.

In another clip from that podcast he commented about the social media trend of people randomly punching women, saying that at first they seemed to only be white women, so it was funny, but then it was concerning when applied to other races, since his wife might be involved.  It's a joke; it's supposed to be funny that he is insensitive.  It's not a good joke, but it would be hard to work out material in real time on a podcast, versus trying out jokes and then refining them.




This picture is more typical, Joe Rogan edited down to look much smaller than a guy who fights at 135 pounds (Dominick Cruz), so that Joe would be under 5 feet tall in this edit.  But the comments usually hate on him for his views, for selling out and becoming more conservative, or supporting nonsense for his own gain, like hosting Tucker Carlson.

In one sense I think Joe Rogan has to be free to have his own opinions, and to share them, and shouldn't be held to an unreasonable standard for being well-informed or mostly right, in his role.  In another sense he really has drifted to hold less and less considered and reasonable takes as he moves towards standard and often questionable right-wing thinking.  He should be called out and looked down upon for that, for being influential and losing a normal baseline.  He was essentially an anti-vaxxer during covid; some of those kinds of opinions actually matter, nudging people towards decisions based on low-quality random hearsay.


Not all of the Reddit subs are degrading into a shadow of their former scope and form, of course.  But it seems to me that Reddit gets worse, not better, and people being edgy to draw reactions increases while reasonable discussion drops off.  Whole subs (sub-Reddits or groups) can devolve as a result, and that happens all the time.  

Maybe a different example and problem is a better example for Reddit:  people often copy and paste old posts or posts from elsewhere to draw upvotes, a category of karma, the equivalent of Facebook likes.  If it's interesting content that's not so bad, but as often the same posts re-occur over and over.  Taken together tone or theme shifts in groups and repetitive and low effort posting degrade the Reddit experience.


Returning to the point


Trolling is also problematic, people saying negative things to get attention, and AI programs posting as a person, for whatever purposes.  Aggressive comments are normal.  

Beyond all that patterns of normal interaction seem to become routine, falling into these typical repetitive forms, which are less interesting and contain less actual content than earlier genuine discussion had.

Some of this relates to the same ground having been covered so many times before.  In travel groups, for example, people post the same general questions that others have been posting for years, so that it's hard to not just advise them to search for the other 100 threads covering the same theme.  That same thing comes up in tea groups, or any special interest groups I'm in.  Other groups are more ruined by those negative posting themes, people being edgy to draw a reaction, so that places centered on discussion of philosophy and Buddhism became unpleasant and impossible to follow years ago.


I've co-founded a popular Facebook tea group, and a small local area theme tea group, and created two Quora spaces, and all of them have gone a bit quiet.  Both individual groups and platforms seem to live out life-cycles.  It's possible for mechanisms and themes to trigger renewal, as can occur in an individual real-life life, but in general stagnation and decline set in.  


7600 followers and it's dead quiet; that's normal



Google Plus stopped changing to support renewal and that whole platform died.  Very early in social media history My Space got renewal all wrong and changes killed that platform.  For many years afterward I would go back and look at those two places, virtual ghost-towns, and I think My Space still exists now, while Google Plus doesn't, beyond as an archived subscriber access form.


Short videos / YouTube shorts / Tic-Toc / Instagram and Facebook reels / stories


The latest transition for many platforms is adding short videos as a main feature theme.  Typically an algorithm will emphasize this content, but it's already a popular form without being boosted.  

It's easy to consume 30 seconds or shorter video content.  One strange twist on Tik Tok and YouTube shorts is splitting the video to include a half section of someone playing with kinetic sand, or some other visually stimulating, low-information content.  It's seemingly there to help distract a child so their attention span can last for the full 30 seconds.


this article attributes this as starting on Tik Tok



I don't know what this short video theme means in relation to the rest of what I've been discussing.  Maybe reading in general is on the way out.  One might guess that many main platforms switching to the same content form drops out some distinctiveness among any of them, but then it may just be that it's a popular form now, and there is no other deeper meaning.


Conclusions


Maybe I'm all wrong about this, and platforms and groups don't evolve into repeating communication patterns leading to their decline.  Maybe they just experience a natural lifecycle separate from all that, based on whatever causes, maybe mostly natural transitions in interest.  This is something I've only been noticing and thinking through recently; maybe this take isn't one I'll stick with.

Some of it could be my own burn-out related to these repeating forms, and too much social media contact.  I'm doing a lot with real life lately but still manage to check in online a good bit, and the repetition of forms and content themes are both annoying.


One might expect that for me being a group founder and moderator, and for participating in expat forums a good bit over more than a decade, that these social media lifespan transitions in forms would be more familiar.  They definitely follow typical patterns, but I'm not sure that they have to.  

It's interesting how fast main communication channels for specific topics can switch, or at least could in the past.  Back around 2008-10 I was active in following IT service management process discussions, and those would switch the primary place they took place at least twice a year.  The same people would shift together.  I've been following online tea discussions for much longer, and only over the last 3 to 4 years have those seemed to stabilize, settling into Discord groups and Reddit being active and other places tapering off, with app based communities as a small exception.  

Broad platforms, as I've mostly been discussing, have longer lifespans.  Decline can take many years.


Friday, March 29, 2024

The cancellation of Andrew Huberman, science-lifestyle podcaster

 

To me this is an interesting story.  A well-regarded, well-credentialed, science-oriented life advice podcaster--Andrew Huberman--rises to new heights of fame and following, and is later "cancelled" for personal reasons, basically for having 5 or more exclusive relationship girlfriends at the same time.  

Should that get him cancelled?  What does it really mean in relation to that life advice?  To me those aren't even the most interesting angles.  The better questions that arise relate to why so many people accepted his ideas so completely, and why opinions are divided between seeing his personal life choices as not relevant and this calling into question his general credibility.

It all originated from this New York magazine story, Andrew Huberman’s Mechanisms of Control :The private and public seductions of the world’s biggest pop neuroscientist.  I just noticed that they put "Joe Rogan" in the web page name, even though he played essentially no part in any of this, beyond helping Huberman rise to fame.  That's SEO I guess.


Let's work backwards, and start with what he did, and then who he is, on to how to take this.  He was in a relationship that was framed as monogamous with one woman, over a period of years, extending that as far as attempting to have children at one point (allegedly; it's hard to know how much of any one-source account is accurate).  Then it turned out that he was in serious relationships with at least 4 other women at the same time, and maybe more.  The coordination is admirable, on one level.

So what?  The problem was that he communicated the relationships were exclusive to each, per the story, not only adjusting his partners' expectations but influencing their decision to have unprotected sex, which is lower risk in an exclusive relationship.  Per the story spreading STDs did come up, which have been rebranded as STIs in recent times, broadened to include other conditions.  It's all not such unusual behavior, but it is immoral.


I've seen Huberman on some podcasts but I wasn't really a follower.  The ideas seemed fine, including some that I already subscribed to.  He recommended that people shouldn't even consume moderate amounts of alcohol, not for moral reasons, but because it causes more health impact than is generally accepted.  I essentially quit drinking alcohol some years ago, maybe 5 or 6, and drank very little for a decade before that, and it does seem like life might balance a little better without that input.  He recommended getting sun early in the day, and moderating or adjusting the form of caffeine intake, and any number of other things (including ice baths, maybe?).  Most of it is probably pretty good, well-grounded advice.

It's odd that all this isn't really directly derived from his scientific researcher background, or so it seems.  Per that article he researched optical conditions and regeneration capabilities in mice, pretty far from the scope of all this life advice.  He could sort through scientific materials in a different way than others, based on the general background, and what he pursued of his own interests might be directly relevant, based on sound research, and worthy of sharing.


Let's clear up a bit of extra context and tangents and then move on to the main themes, how this cancellation worked out, and what seems interesting about it to me.  To frame where I stand on the general research based advice theme, I've been following another "science-guy" Youtube channel that perhaps overlaps in scope, Physionic, described as follows:


Detailed multi-study analyses, clear explanations of mechanisms underlying the results, and a sprinkling of cheeky humor. Learn your body, from the macro to the micro - welcome to Physionic.


So I can relate to the instinctive desire to learn from someone who is drawing on and summarizing research materials that it would be hard to interpret, related to diet, exercise, supplement use, new atypical practice topics like ice baths, and so on.  I get how credentials, charisma, and well-grounded information could be more compelling in combination.  The Leo and Longevity Youtube channel had been a similar resource, focused more on longevity and experimental drug use, or steroids and such, but Leo died under mysterious circumstances last year, leading to me searching out a replacement, Physionic.

I've recently ran across a Reddit Huberman sub (group), which is the main prompt to write this post.  They're rejecting him there now; it's one sided, and even a bit ugly.  The comments on that original article, describing his relationship issues, are divided; half say that his personal relationships aren't relevant to his role as a "pop neuroscientist," with the other half calling into question his personal credibility.  The reason that resource made the subject more interesting is that I find the reactions interesting.


One odd input condition stands out in that article, tied to the latter theme:  Huberman is endorsed by Athletic Greens.  Per my understanding that product theme works off the older spirulina miracle food status by mixing lots of other natural inputs or supplements with that.  Then that can be regarded as controversial, because they combine 75 ingredients into a supplement marketed as a way to replace vegetable input in the diet.  This quote sums that up, from their website:


that's Huberman saying that


Could you get a basis of important vitamins, minerals, and probiotics from a scoop or two of that per day?  Maybe, but it seems doubtful.  If it was designed to be more like Soylent, a balanced input supplement designed to replace a meal then that kind of large-scope claim seems more likely, not as a green foods variation of a protein shake.


Why his relationship status doesn't matter, the argument


Seems obvious enough, but let's go there.  It's Huberman's business who he dates, and if he misrepresents his relationship status with women that's a bit sketchy but it's still up to him.  The life advice / pop neuroscientist theme is relatively completely separate.

This response and perspective is a critique of cancel culture, of the pattern of blaming individuals and and striking them down from public acceptance for personal shortcomings, even when these aren't even close to illegal activity, or even vaguely related to why they are popular, or tied to what they communicate.  This resonates with me; I think if Huberman is giving useful, science-based life advice then how he manages dating and relationships isn't relevant to that theme.


Why connecting relationship issues and giving practical life advice makes sense


There is something to this theme of critiquing general reliability and authenticity.  Within the scope of longevity study, for example, research into extending human life-span, cases of researchers recommending supplements that they have a commercial interest in comes up.  It seems possible that the science based, practical guidance could be adjusted when it relates to the person offering it making money off it.

This isn't that case though.  It moves the concern all the way back to far more general reliability; is this a trustworthy individual?  I don't have a great read on Huberman, for not having seen much of his content, but my initial impression was positive.  Just not positive enough to seek out more content, I guess, but then I'm pretty inconsistent about what I watch on Youtube.  It ends up being filtered more for varying and random subject interest than practical impact, so that I might be watching content on cave diving one week and about streamed content reviews for shows that I don't watch the next.

To me the Athletic Greens / AG1 sponsorship really is a bit more troubling.  That's fine for content producers like Joe Rogan; if any viewers are making life choices or supplement purchases based on his input that's up to them, and they have to already know that it's not grounded by the latest scientific research.  Huberman should be more careful.  Is it that Athletic Greens might really be a fantastic product?  Instead of being unconvinced I'm more actively skeptical, and doubt it, but in fairness I don't know.

Just because Huberman continually lied to some of the people he was closest to in personal life that doesn't mean that he would be dishonest about findings he communicates in his podcast.  If the right conditions came up he probably would, but it's not clear that they ever do, beyond that one sponsor endorsement issue.


Extremist reactions from Huberman followers


This might be the most interesting part.  People in that Reddit sub are already talking about cancelling Athletic Greens subscriptions, and potentially disregarding the other life advice that they had accepted.  I'm not really going to address that here, that some people are taking this so seriously, as if it changes everything.  Maybe it should, but not everyone would follow that logic.

It's interesting to me that people were seeking out this kind of reference and personal authority to follow to begin with.  As a personable, interesting, and potentially valuable information source why not; Huberman's podcast was probably novel and helpful.  Positioning him as a thought leader or life coach I don't get.

And this is also why people feel so personally betrayed, related to him not being the person they thought he was.  But then they had no idea how he managed his personal life, so all that was projection from an online persona image anyway.  

If he was just sharing some ideas, drawing on research and his own developed perspective, then none of that matters.  If he had been taken up and placed in a role model / life coach role it all shifts.

Then source-image branding factors in.  He was built up as the next great resource, as I took the framing.  That guy that creates Physionic content isn't like that; he frames himself as an advanced grad student researcher sorting out some modern themes, like whether turmeric works or not, or whether doing more or less reps when weightlifting is better (just more on the drug / supplement theme side).  

Leo of Leo and Longevity was always framed as kind of an unconventional, strange guy; he started his Youtube career as a penis extension specialist, then moved on to longevity and biohacking themes, talking a lot about steroids.  He openly said that others shouldn't experiment as much and as freely as he did, with lots of things.  Part of his personal exploration involved taking significant risks, not following well-established and grounded practices.  Huberman framed it all as solid life-practice advice, both explicitly and implicitly.  

When it came up that Leo had abusive tendencies in his marriage relationship--as I remember those circumstances--his popularity dipped, and he became inactive for a time, but there wasn't an established idealistic image that he wasn't living up to.  He was always out there.  Huberman was supposed to be some sort of ultra-modern, research oriented, renaissance man.

Maybe he still is that; he was never supposed to be perfect.  Maybe this will be the rare case where all of this blows over.  More likely the drop in popularity that was going to cycle through eventually will be triggered now, and he will retain influence and popularity with some proportion of his earlier audience.  A podcaster like Joe Rogan might have him on again just to talk through cancel culture experience, to highlight how he and his platform are immune to the whims of people who want to initiate that pattern.  It will be interesting to see, but I won't be following it closely, since I never really was a fan anyway.  I'm more a student of these kinds of patterns; to me they are interesting.


One last take


This was an interesting summary, a post in that Huberman Reddit sub titled I'm disgusted by how much I relish this:


On the whole, I enjoyed Huberman's podcast. Setting aside the exhausting tedium and BS ads for supplements and salt, I took away a lot of useful information. In the wake of the NY Mag article, though, I'm getting a kind of sick enjoyment from watching the dumpster fire.

Maybe it's alleviating an insecurity in me, seeing someone I subconsciously compared myself to get exposed as being so egregiously flawed. Maybe it's satisfying to watch deplorable behavior being met with justice. Maybe it's cathartic to imagine a vaguely smug demeanor getting wiped off someone's face.

Whatever the case, in the last couple days, I've been on this subreddit more than in all the time leading up, and I get the sense that it's not very healthy or productive for me to keep indulging in someone else's demise, at least not at this rate. Just thought I'd put that out there in case it resonates with anyone.


It might not be that people are so upset over their hero being torn down, or that people who were always skeptical are happy to be validated.  It may just be that people love to watch things burn.

Tuesday, December 13, 2022

Why the world seems to be changing for the worse

 

about a "dead mall" theme; related article and photo credit


A recent video brought up an interesting and promising line of consideration, why the world seems to be changing for the worse.  It's here, under the title "Does Anyone Else Feel Like Everything Has Changed?"

It would be simple enough to just blame the internet, wouldn't it?  The author cites three book references as a completely different range of answers, in relation to broad patterns in society playing out.  A main theme, or maybe the overall main theme, was that cycles occur in society in such a way that resets tend to occur, which typically aren't positive and low-impact forms of transition.  Societies collapse a bit, from time to time, with that even following regular patterns and time cycles.  Maybe this is about the cycle form he was discussing, or maybe a different version instead.

This idea is familiar.  I studied the philosophy of history in a philosophy class, even though my professor in that class wasn't introducing or presenting the subject, and dissuaded me from researching and writing about it.  Why?  It had been "debunked" as a meaningful pattern and trend.  People had wanted to apply a human lifespan sort of theme to societies evolving and eventually coming to an end, but in trying to apply filtering, looking for preset patterns, they extracted what they sought from what could easily have been random sets of circumstances (the confirmation bias idea).  Or so that "debunking" went; let's dig a little deeper into it all.

It all started with medieval Islamic philosophers, or at least that was my understanding.  Ibn Khaldun was quite influential, here presented as the Wikipedia level summary of main ideas:


Perhaps the most frequently cited observation drawn from Ibn Khaldūn's work is the notion that when a society becomes a great civilization, its high point is followed by a period of decay. This means that the next cohesive group that conquers the diminished civilization is, by comparison, a group of barbarians. Once the barbarians solidify their control over the conquered society, however, they become attracted to its more refined aspects, such as literacy and arts, and either assimilate into or appropriate such cultural practices. Then, eventually, the former barbarians will be conquered by a new set of barbarians, who will repeat the process.


I took it as less clear why this happened, that he was mostly identifying what he regarded as a common and repeating trend, which he offered some explanation for, but never really clearly resolved in terms of cause and effect, or even experienced forms.

It's interesting trying to find that reference that a Western citation about the philosophy of history doesn't mention anything outside of European contributions.  It's as if Ibn Khaldun hadn't developed the main starting points, observations based on clear cycles in regional history, as he presented it all.

My own guesses about why this would occur, surely of marginal value, kept changing over time.  I suppose a more natural starting point, from where I've left the ideas, is how and why it was "debunked."  Broad societies must begin and end, and there must be common patterns in forms in the middle?  The problem is that if you start with assumptions about the patterns you are looking for it's quite possible, even likely, that you will sweep complex inputs and effects together in ways that really make no sense.  Time-frame can shift quite a bit, and definitions of a society, or empire, and so on.  Philosophers can end up collecting together all sort of ideas, starting points, argument forms, transition patterns, end-points, and so on, and then eventually it can lose too much cohesiveness, and become meaningless.

I suppose all of this applies as a critique of what that Youtube content producer was summarizing, of what he was reading about, in terms of cycles of history.  One early and main point was that on about an 80 year cycle periods of disruptive war occur, which looking back really seemed to map well to experienced history, at a glance.  Only at a glance though; he was mapping out main periods of disruption backwards from WW 2 (or really forwards to get there, but it worked out the same), landing on mid to late 19th century events as the prior disruption point.  That only works by jumping over WW 1 as a significant event, which of course is absurd.  It was significant.

Since I'm not going to set all this aside as irrelevant, looking for clear and repeating patterns where none occur, I'll treat these patterns of history repeating itself in this way as real, and speculate as to whether they might occur, and why.  To be clear this step doesn't completely work; I can't support it.  But we also can't effectively set aside ideas that haven't really been fleshed out and considered, so let's go there next.


Cycles of history


The idea is that a society or civilization starts in a relatively chaotic state.  Maybe that's related to the downfall of a prior civilization, or maybe that input cause and conditions don't really matter.  In this state societal forms are not clearly defined and rigidly enforced, kind of like the romantic American "wild west" notion; things go as they happen to go.  We don't seem to have walked off the map just yet; this kind of status must be a real thing, if a bit rare, in comparison with ongoing replacement of more orderly, older, previously well defined societies, with clearly identified social roles, public institutions, central government, laws, infrastructure development, well organized trade, and so on.  All of that develops organically, for a set of relatively obvious reasons.  Those structures are effective, and as they serve purposes they become reinforced, with later decline and disruption a related separate subject.

In the Islamic model, the patterns Ibn Khaldun was observing, a literal overthrow of society by barbarians kept occurring.  It sounds like the end of the Roman Empire, doesn't it?  That just took a long time, and happened in stages, over very long periods of gradual decay and secondary transition.


Let's skip ahead.  If we assume this all makes sense, our focus now is going to be on why an organized society might stop working, not to what extent the consistent whole cycle occurs, or about the first two thirds of the transition.  And one might stop working for completely different reasons.  Maybe it's that eventually external barbarians get conditions right to successfully overthrow that organized society.  Maybe it's internal instead; this consideration seems more interesting.

The societal structures themselves tend to eventually evolve to be ineffective and unstable, it seems.  Maybe it doesn't matter why, and it's only a matter of time before internal and external causes and conditions change, really for complex reasons.  Ibn Khaldun's model proposed an external factor as a main cause, again that barbarians eventually took over, but the sense comes across that internal factors were also critical (maybe explicit in his detailed work; I didn't get too far with literature review).  It has been 16 years since I wrote that paper, to be clear, which I would've read a half dozen sources to support, so all of this isn't a claim that I'm remembering it well, or ever was a solid reference on that work myself.

Related to speculation about internal factors, why did the British Empire come to an end?  That's seems like a fairly clear and modern example.  At the beginning of the 20th century it was expansive and strong, and by the middle it was over.  The whole colonial era ended; it seemed that it was mostly just that, in that case.  If it's that simple "real historians" could probably identify that the writing was on the wall going into that century.

I've considered lots of other guesses, over time (not so much about the British Empire, but in general).  It seems possible that societal structures become rigid over time, and their failure to be able to change can't enable them to be relevant in changing external conditions.  Or maybe it's as simple as something like the unequal distribution of wealth being reinforced over time, that eventually the other 99% of the population aren't going to have it.  Infrastructure burden could add up; as societies develop better and better central supports, roads, institutions, social protections, complex tax structures, laws, etc., eventually these could add more and more burden to be supported by the whole of society, and would be difficult to maintain over time.  In the "wild west" example there barely were any laws, the opposite untenable status, but if you add too many laws and protections, and keep on adding them, eventually some sort of unsustainable tipping point would probably arise.  It's this theme that I'm going to develop most.

There's lots more I could add across levels of this range, but let's move on to pursue that one direction, assuming that society gaining order and structure can be problematic.  That isn't a claim that this would have to be a main cause, but I'm going to discuss it as if this were so, it will seem implied.  I don't mean it that way, but developing the ideas is going to require setting aside continual framing discussion.  Here I'm going to take this in an unusual direction, not looking for aspects that I see as decay later on (eg. infrastructure burden, rigid social practices, economic transitions), but instead consider how developing societies seem to be different from more developed examples, to start from what changes earlier on in the process, especially related to general feel and perspective.


Evolution of developed societies


We don't need to go back to the wild west or dark ages to examine first hand how chaotic, undeveloped, less structured, less economically developed societies differ from the opposite extreme.  I was in Cambodia the day before yesterday, at time of this initial draft writing, and I live in Thailand, and as I see it those two examples populate the less developed spectrum that we can examine now, as two distinct stages.  Then the US and Europe span the opposite side of the spectrum.  Obviously this is going to overweight my own interpretation; that's how speculative, extended, first-hand observations would have to go.

Cambodia is chaotic; no doubt about that.  I've been to Siem Reap twice (where the ancient temples are, Angkor Wat and such), and Phnom Penh once (the capital), but this was my first visit to Poi Pet, a border town set up mainly as a gambling resort.  It was amazing how development is happening so partially; individual roads, houses, and shops seemed half-finished, most of them.  Cleared out vacant lots are interspersed with developed areas.  Factors like municipal water quality and sewage system support tend to improve over time, along with roads and rail systems.

Thailand already doesn't follow zoning restrictions, not forcing business, residential, industrial, and agricultural areas to be zoned in isolated sections, but Poi Pet was that much more chaotic, just absolutely random.  Which seemed fine, interesting and not unpleasant, after the initial shock of the differences wore off.  They don't use traffic lights, stop signs, or roundabout style intersections, they just sort it all out on the fly.  That was different.  Traffic is chaotic in Bangkok too, with road designs and intersections a bit of a mess, but not like that, there are traffic lights and roundabouts. 


Poi Pet actually looks like rural Thailand, like Sa Kaeo or Lop Buri


Backing up a bit, I was considering all of this from a different perspective in relation to Thailand very recently.  My wife and I visited a somewhat chaotic local market built in an open space under an elevated highway in Bangkok, along a railroad.  It was just set-up stalls in an open space, with a food court area across the tracks that was just another blank area filled in with booths / stalls for vendors (including makeshift kitchens), and flimsy tables and plastic chairs as the seating area.  I loved it; I won't make a secret of that tone.  If such a place seems dirty or rough edged it can be off-putting, but I found this place to be well organized, clean, and inviting.  Of course Americans would be divided on that; it would have to be completely unfamiliar to most.


that outdoor food court; the market section is across a set of railroad tracks


The one part that really stood out to me is hard to describe, the feel.  It was positive, loud and vibrant, but also relaxed and open.  Literally loud; music was playing a bit too loudly, which comes up a lot in different contexts in Bangkok, even out in the country here sometimes.  Chaos can have a rough feel, but this included enough order.  The food was good too, but I guess that could've went either way.  Was it safe; was there higher foodborne illness risk than in a US restaurant?  Probably, but I've lived in Thailand for 15 years, eating in food courts regularly, in different forms, surely at least 1000 times, and I've never became sick from one.  I've only had full-blown food poisoning twice, both times in Korea instead; probably just bad luck, that.  I've experienced less minor stomach distress here than in the US, but not much in either place, less than once a year; maybe I've been lucky.

Such a place could not exist in the US.  The closest one would come might be the stalls selling food in a public fair environment, or food trucks are closing in on somewhat related forms.  Let's pause there a second; doesn't the recent existence of food trucks offset the broad pattern I described earlier, how controlled, limited, restricted conditions evolve over time, not new forms that limit prior restrictions on social controls and protections?  Maybe, but it could be that the exception proves the rule, somehow.  Or maybe it's about cracks forming in the rigid social structures in the US, compensating for the one-way development of oppressive levels of order.  Or maybe food trucks are too good an idea to oppress, and they were naturally going to move from industrial site lunch support to become mainstream.


a predecessor to the mall form, a Chinatown style market area, here in Ayuthayah


It's not just that one example, related to disorder and more chaotic forms being common in Thailand.  Street food is a main theme everywhere, and you can't cook and sell food from a steel table welded to the side of a motorcycle in the US, or from a cart that you push around.  Old style markets are often just large empty buildings, or just open spaces, as in that highway / rail line example.  Taxation burden is lower, infrastructure development and spending is lower, and social protections are far more limited.  The government provides moderate quality health care for low cost, maybe with "moderate" a generous assessment for quality range, but beyond that people are mostly on their own.  Cohesive family structures fill in the rest, and in general it works out, just not in every case.

Certifications of all sorts, for companies and individuals, are limited as requirements.  I think this example holds more meaning and runs a lot deeper than it might seem at first.  To be a masseuse in Hawaii my wife would need to take a one year training course, and here in Thailand whatever background you have is enough, down to almost none.  Engineers aren't really registered here; maybe some function gets lost along the way for not having those restrictions, beyond just adding clutter of extra paperwork and fees.  I don't see restrictive levels of training and certification in the US as a mostly positive context though; to me it often evolves to be just as wasteful as it is functional.

The feel is something else, to keep returning to that.  I found that market and food court area to have a dynamic but relaxed feel, in a sense that doesn't map to other places very well in the US.  To be clear I'm from the East Coast, rural Pennsylvania, and I've only lived back in Honolulu for two months this year, two months ago now, so I'm more familiar with Thailand and local culture than my own native version.  It really does work to map the absolute chaos we experienced in Cambodia as the next step in the same direction.  And per one visit to Europe--very long ago, so again very limited input--it also works to map a higher level of order, restriction, narrower social expectations, and general quiet to European cultures, in comparison to the feel of the US. 

It might seem like I'm heading towards a claim that European cultures really should become unstable, if a pattern of normal chaos to order and then downfall typically occurs.  I'm not saying that.  Obviously somehow most European cultures have evolved to very stable forms, and a range of positive outcomes.  A European from any given place might vehemently argue against that, experiencing what they interpret as broad social changes over the past 20 years, seeing it all as unstable and inclined towards further and faster change, but that would probably depend on individual perspective and degree of optimism.

I don't have enough experience to really map out such range of ideas, but here I'm using stability and order in narrow, limited senses.  You can act out in unconventional ways in the US and it's fine, a normal part of that culture.  You can even pitch a tent and live on the street, and that's a main social trend right now, along with "van life," living in a car or larger vehicle, not only due to restrictive financial necessity.  In Thailand there are much narrower and more developed social expectations, related to roles and forms of expression, but in terms of what society restricts, across other levels and scopes, things are much more open.  Even the laws are a bit optional in many cases.  I could develop that theme quite a bit, but it's as well not to, to leave that as an unsupported assertion.

All this isn't really "hanging together" as much as it might, is it?  The general thesis here is that order increases as societies develop, with restrictions bringing positive change and also limitations, offsetting personal options, and impacting the free and open feel experienced by individuals.  It's largely about what I've experienced and felt, more than examples that highlight how it's all necessarily so.  Honolulu is a much cleaner, more organized, structured place than Bangkok, and Poi Pet is further towards noise and chaos.  Along with the benefits of adding to order something gets lost.  This later "collapse of society" theme seems to be something else, about negative patterns in pushing on and on, so that in some limited senses too much could get lost along the way.  I think the two themes do connect.

One might automatically assume that the structuring increases safety, that it's not just illness from eating bad grilled pork satay that's a risk, but that factors like crime should gradually decrease.  Oddly it doesn't work out that way.  Crime seems to relate to social forms and patterns that absolutely do not map to development level or average income level.  Bangkok is much safer than Honolulu, which is much safer than the average mainland US city.  Level of corruption also seems to be an unrelated secondary factor, loosely pairing with general decline as societies become more organized and developed, but it also seems possible that the corruption could also just become more organized and developed.


A long term pattern of decline


That context mapping seemed like it might never end, didn't it?  Let's jump ahead again, back to this idea of whether or not the US really is shifting in form now, perhaps in a way tied to general decline.  I could write this out as a carefully developed, supported, step-by-step explanation of patterns I think might be occurring, but that would take 10,000 words instead of a few hundred.  I'll need to just say what I think, without explaining it in such a careful way.

I think a few main causes are occurring that end up shifting the form and feel of US culture, with real negative impact for people on the wrong end of these patterns:


-economic shift:  the late-stage capitalism theme, a form change combining with other transitions, a shift from manufacturing to service based economy, and so on.  Cost of living increases undermine the practicality of sustaining manufacturing and labor intensive agriculture, and then service based work conducted with more employee protections works out to not be so much more ideal.  I think housing and real estate being used as an investment base is a main cause of many problems now, but that's too much of a tangent to develop here.


-economic decline:  a natural development of lower prosperity as economic development changes form and in a sense also stops, really one part of the first pattern.  Standard of living is still much higher in the US than in Thailand, and certainly than in Cambodia, but for many that's declining, while those other countries still experience generally positive changes.  I'm from the "Rust Belt," and my own industrial engineering career ended essentially when it started, so I get it how local economy and job-sector impacts play out.


-increased wealth inequality:  this part is complicated.  It seems as if a middle class develops as countries develop, and then later that trend can reverse, shifting back to most people being rich or poor.  Some European countries seem to have intentionally countered that, setting up institutions and processes to even it all back out.


-internet influence:  social forms moving online, and changing as a result.  This is not the same kind of thing as the rest, since it has only came into being over the past 20 or so years.  I'll add a lot more about forms of this factoring in, because it seems like some interesting changes are occurring.  A lot of the underlying patterns may stay the same without that input, with it just speeding up some transitions.


-reduced general health in the US:  the result of a number of factors.  Again, it's something else, probably not closely related to the rest.  Or maybe it is tightly linked, and eating mass-produced processed foods instead of local, natural foods pairs with these other trends.  Either way I'll set this part aside.  Mental health issues are even trickier; those causes and effects must mix, but I won't treat those here much either, beyond limited and not overly meaningful overlap with one internet experience example.


The third part about wealth inequality ties back to part of what I attributed Ibn Khaldun as saying, right, a progressive, natural change that becomes untenable?  Perhaps unfairly connected, since that part was my interpretation or even extension of his points, more than I remember it being directly received ideas.  There is a lot to unpack related to all of these, but I want to focus on the internet form change instead of the rest.  I don't think it's more primary than the rest, but some really interesting social changes are occurring.


Internet context changing social forms and experiences


On the one hand I think this is as much a factor as all the rest related to a general impression that "things are changing, and not for the better."  Then on the other I also suspect that the forms of changes, the specific patterns, were already happening to some extent, and the online forms are just speeding up other transitions, or helping separate and problematic conditions combine together.  


dead mall interest (related Youtube channel, Reddit discussion group):  this subject combines interest in culture changes, economic shifts, and a change in media consumption and online discussion.  People interested in this topic must embrace experience of nostalgia, to some extent, with the content producers describing their own interest as documenting recent history, what malls were like in the 80s and 90s, since many are now closing.  This isn't included as an example of "things are getting worse;" shopping form changes are more complicated than that.  It could be interpreted that way, but a more common take is that online shopping and popularity of smaller retail centers were the main causes.

Again in popular interpretation malls ending is an aspect of "late stage capitalism," a broad category subject which would mean completely different things to different people.  The dystopia theme is interesting too though, referenced in Reddit groups like Dystopian Future, and Idiocracy.  I don't love all the main aspects of general Reddit subculture, but right now it does seem more interesting and effective for following these subject interests than most Facebook groups, which seem to age out of active and focused topic participation faster.


more novel and impactful changes:  I recently saw a video about Tik Tok viewers mimicking Tourette's syndrome behavior, picking up verbal expression "tics."  I've been exploring how other mental health conditions have also become popular, especially how people are copying the form of Dissociative Identity Disorder in intentionally  developing "tulpas," secondary internal personalities.  What's all that about?  I'm really not even going to address it here, except to guess that this is all a very extreme example of what is already unusual and potentially impactful enough, that online group identification has shifted to take on more and more extreme forms over the last half dozen years.  

Real life experiences are becoming marginalized, with online associations taking on greater and greater importance.  You can't really "catch" mental illness though online social exposure, I don't think, but social experience and general mental health can change.  This seems like a symptom that is probably hard to fully place.


that tulpa group I had mentioned:  this group is about people imagining secondary internal personalities into existence, essentially mimicking dissociative identity disorder.  In this case it's more odd that the practice itself exists than the group; of course if people take up such an uncommon interest association with others might be seen as positive.  I don't see it as different than participation in a group about running, for example, except maybe that online group association itself is being carried to extremes. 

Given other focus here on societal level decline and groups identifying with dislike of some common theme one might look for some related pattern of meaning in this example.  It's not about that.  It definitely seems to represent an unconventional take on reality, and a new form of adjusting internal experience, but it's not really negative, just quite unconventional, as some of these other examples are.


Let's go further, onto other examples.  I'll add links to these, since my own exploration of these themes has largely occurred online, and these examples help show what I mean in relation to form and context.


Theo Von comedian podcast:  it's normal for people to watch podcasts or comedy content, but this Reddit group is for self-identification as a fan of Theo Von.  The Youtube channel has 1.2 million followers, and discussion group 40k, so that many take self-association the next step.  I'm not saying that this is bizarre behavior, or negative in any way, but a decade ago people identifying through being a fan of a comedy related podcast would've been relatively unthinkable.  15 years ago podcasts hadn't happened yet, in this modern form.  

Taken alone this has nothing to do with the general decline of society, or individual lives having less meaning, but some related patterns could add up in negative ways.  The existence of media or performing arts stars is definitely not new, but this form is, and somehow personal identification patterns also seem to be.  That part is going to connect more in an unusual form later on.


Joe Rogan Reddit sub:  this group has nearly 800,000 members that generally discuss Joe Rogan's podcast (the main such channel), towards the main end goal of tearing Joe Rogan apart, ridiculing him.  They could still be fans, but the group purpose is not support, or shared positive interest.  I'm not even sure that makes sense now, never mind however many years ago, before recent cultural changes that embrace new forms of negativity became common.  


they love to photoshop Joe to make him look tiny, which is funny



Some background from foreigner / expat experiences in Thailand might help inform what is going on.  Initially, visiting as tourists or new to living in Thailand, people experience a "honeymoon period," very positive about how different the culture is, the food, general look, ways people smile a lot and interact positively, and follow different customs.  Then later negative experiences accumulate, and at some point they feel compelled to changing over to disliking Thai culture.  In the middle it can be awkward, trying to balance perspective on some aspects being positive and others negative.  Positive things can have a negative side, or the opposite, but things need to break cleanly in one main direction or the other; people are wired to like or dislike things, to see them as essentially good or bad.

I think with Joe Rogan there had always been an everyman appeal, as an actor who was relatable, a comedian with a normal outlook on things, and a fight fan.  Then as Joe Rogan became wealthy and drifted further into conservative ideology it all came apart, and disliking him for being wildly successful acted as a cause.  Covid and the political divide have become two main points of separation in society, and it seemed like those alone were also primary causes.  Joe emphasized risks in vaccination, echoing conservative talking points, and then when he contracted covid he underwent tens of thousands of dollars worth of advanced treatments steps, which few followers could afford.


Better Bachelor, men's "not dating" themed group:  I guess this is a moderate derivative of MGTOW, men going their own way, a movement for men to self-identify as not dating.  This is particularly interesting to me, again for being a sort of backwards or reversed interest form, a group shared interest in not doing some particular thing.  Again I don't see this as problematic or extremist, it's just an odd social identification, to identify as not dating.  You can just not date.  I see this as a follow-up to extreme forms of feminism rejecting a lot of what can be associated with masculinity, or the patriarchy, so perhaps this is in part a negative reaction to a separate negative reaction.

Then there is also a rejection theme or broad dislike here in these topics I can't completely place in terms of common ground.  The culture war is one thing, but this is about men and women rejecting dating, sex, and any pair bonding (including an opposite feminist variation), previously fundamental practices and forms of self-identification.  It's unusual.


fasting; another atypical interest:  I've become a bit active in a fasting group recently; it's odd that social identification could occur around the idea of taking breaks from eating.  It's not so much a social activity.  Taken alone that's not at all negative, but the cumulative effect of splintering personal interests replacing "real life" social contact could become problematic, especially if shared dislike becomes a main theme, as in these other cases.  

In recent discussion it was brought up how odd it seems that some people react so negatively to other people not eating, as if it's a critique of their own lifestyle choices, more specifically that of eating every single day, which is quite natural.  These interests immediately move on to self-definition and in-group issues, even when that doesn't seem to be a necessary step.


anti-woke entertainment media commentary:  Nerdrotic, this example, or this more mainstream Critical Drinker channel is probably better.  This is really unusual, that a sizable set of media commentary channels has gained significant following by criticizing mainstream movie and television content for being "woke," liberal and progressive in forms seen as negative.  Most of these channels were conventional critic or commentary themed, but the opportunity to gain a much broader following for zeroing in on this one culture war based theme caused them to isolate that one topic, and essentially exclude all others.  Here again it's a case of people self-identifying not in terms of how they define themselves, but as associated with others who dislike the same things, which is odd to me.

The idea of "hate-watching" television shows and movies comes up, not just this critique, for a large following to actively pursue and express dislike for media content, but that many people who self-identify as disliking some entertainment media forms do continue to watch it.  Why?  I suppose it ties to the political divide / culture war in the US, to both liberals and conservatives making it a personal interest and pass-time to critique the other extreme.  People who hated Trump ended up hearing a lot more about Trump than people who were more neutral about him, surely.

That last example went through an odd inversion in my own case.  Like anyone else I was concerned about how Trump leadership would go, and for being more liberally inclined dislike for some range of factors entered in quickly.  But within the first year it was clear that following the story-line sides wasn't going to help, what he said day to day, so I avoided that news, which was easier to do for living in Thailand.  A Canadian co-worker found it all very entertaining and compelling, even for being less involved as an interested party, so he kept on filling me in on it all.


Mr. Ballen story channel, and associated Reddit group:  this channel is pretty good, so again the point here isn't passing negative judgment.  "Mr. Ballen" tells spooky stories, about ghosts, accidental deaths, or crimes and such.  He has nearly 7 million subscribers, which I think is up from about a million a year ago; it's a subject that draws considerable interest.  People self-identify as fans of the channel and stories, which is fine.  Then for essentially all of these Youtube channels they would now offer Patreon options to contribute, and merchandise to wear related clothing.

Think back to how people really loved, and to an extent self-identified, with mainstream comedy shows in the past, at the end of the last century, with Cheers, then Seinfeld, then Friends.  It's not completely different, but because such a large proportion of the country was on that same page even if the online channels had supported discussion and self-identification then it wouldn't have worked in the same way.  I think there is a lot more there to consider and explore.  It's almost as if a vacuum in personal meaning or identification is playing out, more than these directions are drawing people in.  Or maybe it's only that three main network television channels have been replaced by literally countless other media selections, and somehow embracing that media consumption interest leads to self-identification of a different form.

I'm not claiming that I'm separate from that, that I don't experience it too.  I tend to explore media types and themes, interested in the ideas and formats, but it's not so different than sticking to a few for longer.  I attribute that to being slightly socially isolated related to living as a foreigner in another country, and to parenting demands limiting my real-life social development, tied to being coupled with that other factor.  Maybe to some extent it's just generally how things go now, that parts of most lives are lived online, and it's not all going to map back to what one might see as previous conventional life practices (dating, exercise, cooking, etc.).


What is different from earlier mainstream media following related to this trend?


This I seemed to pass over quickly in that earlier mention; maybe more is going on here to consider.  I think a few key differences come up related to finding a comedy show experience very important and meaningful and instead identifying as a fan through these extra formal channels.  To be clear I think that this earlier trend laid the groundwork for what we now experience, that association as a tv show fan isn't a completely unrelated and inconsistent experience.  Liking a comedian or K-pop star isn't so different than following a sports team or musician in the past.

One difference has been the degree of shared experience dropping out.  With three main television channels in the US in the late 20th century, and a lot of focus on sports events, people were experiencing a lot of the same things that many others were.  Now that's not nearly as true.

I think "real life" still playing a main role in life experience at the end of the 20th century was also completely different.  It's all too easy to put online content consumption the center of one's life now, with "water cooler" discussions replaced by online commenting.  It doesn't even need to center on one show or theme; combining interest in sports, television show media, movies, and informative content could make watching shows--consuming content--seem like a diverse activity, when in a deeper sense it's really not.  Or the same applies to social media participation, in a different sense.

A lot gets made of how social media participation is now designed to reinforce further participation, how alerts and activity steps trigger some internal brain reward chemical release (popular interpretations of brain chemistry processes aren't a personal interest).  Of course that's probably at least partly real.  In simpler terms social media participation and media consumption can be very habit forming, and these previously unheard of types of self-identification connections can be one result.  I'm not sure to what extent it's important that self-identification with personal dislikes has increased so much.

I agree with common assessments concluding that self-definition and locating self-value in social media experience and "success" could be problematic.  It's artificial, and unlikely to generally carry over directly to real life experience.  If it's a direct means to an end, eg. product marketing, then that may not be accurate, but related to packaging and re-locating conventional life experience into these forms is something else.  Then of course a grey area comes up; "influencers" see themselves and their reach as the marketed product.  For someone working in the modeling profession the connection is just as direct; they are clearly marketing themselves.

The theme of liking to hate things seems new.  It seems a secondary effect from how narrow and somewhat artificial social group self-definition occurs, tying back to themes like the US political divide.  As I explore some of these themes I've mentioned online I tend to often be rejected by groups for not being central enough to their shared interest form.  For example, I run, for four years now, but I don't approach running in the right way to have a valid and shared opinion in many online groups.  I'm not wearing a watch that tracks distance, pace, and heart rate.  I do explore and adjust training parameters (distance, pace, use of rest breaks, etc.), but not in the right forms, not according to common trends.  People in the groups don't necessarily hate me for that (the starting point here), but I'm not one of them.

Things can get a little strange related to social identification around these following themes.  To be seen as a true fan of Theo Von, for example, you might be expected to feel a certain way about Brendan Schaub or Bobby Lee, fellow comedians he is friends with, or to share perspective on their life events.  It maps back to how people always experienced real life very locally, but now it's not that, in this form.


Conclusions


I've followed a few threads here that don't necessarily tie together, really letting the conventional social trend patterns beyond online group exposure and self-identification largely drop towards the end.  I didn't explore economic patterns nearly as much as I see those as primary causes.  As an industrial engineer the decline of manufacturing in the US took on a unique level of personal importance, also as a resident of the US "rust belt."  My original home area, Western PA, is economically decimated by this transition pattern, and I'm separated from my family now because it's not practical for me to live and work there. 

I think decline is occurring in the US, and elsewhere, for many reasons, and sweeping the causes together as mostly connected probably doesn't work.  It's not happening in Thailand in the same sense; the economy is generally ok, personal life experiences seem generally positive, real-life social ties are persisting, crime isn't increasing, there is no drug epidemic or homeless problem, poorer urban area decline and gang participation never took on the same forms, and so on.  The wealth divide isn't really resolving here, but it's also not getting worse.  There have been exactly two public shootings in Thailand, the second this year, and the first in early 2020; some of these negative trends seem to be able to spread.  Or maybe it's that the causes are just running behind in timing, but also occurring.  I suspect that the "retail apocalypse" will occur here too.

Politics are just as problematic as in the US, just in a different form, which hasn't generated a related culture war.  Some would contest that, based on clear examples of why exactly that type of opposition is happening, but to me it hasn't entered everyday consciousness to the same extent, or transitioned to two opposing story lines.  It's more just that the country isn't ran well, and that democracy isn't working.

One might naturally wonder if Thais will experience most of those same patterns as in the US over the next 20 years, if they aren't just behind in some unavoidable societal and social transitions.  Maybe.  To be clear they have their own separate problems to deal with; it's not some sort of utopia.  The onset of dystopia just seems a lot more limited, so far.  To me--and this is just my own speculation, to be clear--the culture war in the US seems partly artificially maintained, by a divide in media reinforcement, which is surely complicated.

It would be interesting if someone as familiar with European cultures as I am Asian societies would break down how the range of related themes have impact there, or aren't relevant.  I've not really filled in my credentials as an Asian culture specialist, have I?  I live in Thailand, and we travel a lot, and I have friends in and from other countries; that's about it.  It's interesting having kids who are half Thai, because they absolutely and completely "get" local culture, on a level I probably never can.  It seems awkward for them to explain it to me, but they do try, if I ask specific enough questions.  As of right now they are in Honolulu, attending school there, so we've switched it back to me explaining their other cultural experiences.


with local family and a friend there


All of this is quite speculative, open to refutation.  It's the kind of thinking out loud in writing that will probably become clearer as I continue to consider these ideas for a few more years.  Or maybe I'm making next to no sense, and will continue to not.  Thoughts, feedback?  Generally informal writing like this doesn't turn into a discussion; just asking.


as a parent I have to be optimistic, and prepare them for a world that will keep changing


Friday, November 11, 2022

Joe Rogan and Matt Walsh Disagree Over Gay Marriage

 




This is interesting, how two relatively conservative, fairly influential modern media figures disagreed over whether or not gay marriage is valid.  How could gay marriage really be invalid?  It seems like nothing more than a bias in accepting that lifestyle, preference, or self-definition as legitimate, doesn't it?  One reasonable interpretation seems to be that it's just homophobia, extended to protect an institution regarded as "traditionally straight."

It takes some back and forth to get to it but Matt starts to propose why he sees gay marriage as problematic in this video discussion clip.  I commented there trying to help clarify what he started in on but never made clear; let's start with that:


I'm no fan of this guy, and Joe clearly proposed the superior take on definition of marriage here, but there is something Matt wasn't able to clearly express that works. At a societal level if we drop most of the definitions of roles and forms like marriage, being male or female, related to employment status and commitment, other types of self definition and other family roles there will be negative impact. And probably some positive change, to be fair. 

It doesn't work well to take up the God's eye view on what these social forms reinforce, so any final mapping is problematic. It certainly doesn't work to apply concern about broad societal cultural changes to individual imperatives, or role or relationship definitions, like that of marriage.


In one sense Matt is saying that gay marriage just doesn't work for him personally, but there's a deeper and potentially more reasonable component of that, which starts to question if abandoning many traditional societal roles wouldn't have negative impact on American culture, and on Americans' lives.

The awkward part of his framing is a loose and seemingly meaningless claim that opposes "his" traditional definition of marriage (between a straight man and woman, for the purpose of having and raising children) with a gap on the "other" side, and a claim that there is no good opposing definition.  Joe Rogan argues well here (unusual, that), and is more or less proposing that marriage could as easily be seen as any definition of committed monogamy, as a long-term relationship commitment between man and woman, or a gay couple, with or without any intention to have children.  That part is odd, that married people should intend to have children for some reason, so I'll just set that aside here.

Grey areas are always going to come up.  There's an internet rumor that Joe Rogan is in a somewhat open relationship, that he has binding prenuptial agreement support to pursue physical relationships outside his own marriage, which of course may or may not be true.  Setting that aside here works, and open marriages in general, or just not considering if three people couldn't be married.  It definitely works best to set aside that Matt Walsh is opposed to transgender acceptance and rights in general.

They never did dig down to the supposed problem, to the layers of why Matt sees gay people being regarded as married in society as problematic.  He seemingly wants to retain the use of that pair-bond term and legal definition for straight couples.  He probably is uncomfortable with others being gay, so there probably is a personal feeling aspect to this, but it can work to isolate the most reasonable concern, that he's not expressing well, and isolate it, to see how much sense it could possibly make.  He seems to think that traditional societal roles are functional, and is concerned that new non-traditional definitions and roles won't work as well.  He just stops short of clarifying that concern here.

As a starting point let's use a hypothetical approach, and move back to a more standard definition of marriage from the US in 1950.


Traditional marriage in the US in 1950


Before even treating this gender preference issue it's worth noting that mixed race marriages were not always legal in the US, and the shift to broad acceptance of those probably came after 1950, along with repealing some of the laws preventing this.  It's a bit of an aside but let's start there, with interracial marriage instead (don't worry, this does connect):


Interracial marriage in the United States has been fully legal in all U.S. states since the 1967 Supreme Court decision that deemed anti-miscegenation state laws unconstitutional (via the 14th Amendment adopted in 1868) with many states choosing to legalize interracial marriage at much earlier dates. Anti-miscegenation laws have played a large role in defining racial identity and enforcing the racial hierarchy. The United States has many ethnic and racial groups, and interracial marriage is fairly common among most of them. Interracial marriages increased from 2% of married couples in 1970 to 7% in 2005[16][17] and 8.4% in 2010.[18]

According to a Pew Research Center analysis of census data conducted in 2013, 12% of newlyweds married someone of a different race...


Certes, CC BY 3.0 <https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0>, via Wikimedia Commons (link)


U.S States, by the date of repeal of anti-miscegenation laws:   No laws passed   Repealed before 1887   Repealed between 1948 and 1967   Overturned on 12 June 1967


In a sense we are there at the connection already, aren't we?  In 1967 all US Southern states were in agreement that people of mixed races could not legally marry, and the rest of the country was in complete agreement that of course they could.  55 years later we're onto a very closely paralleled concern with gay marriage.  The Supreme Court backed all the States outside the South in that divide, and extended previous constitutional rights to include marriage between people of different races.  A more conservative court could walk that back, as gay marriage has been somewhat universally accepted and then restricted again over the past few years.


What was the perceived problem with inter-racial marriage?  It threatened the way that people in the conservative US South viewed race, and surely plenty of conservative and racist individuals elsewhere didn't want people of different races marrying either.  To them race was a social construct and also a real thing, based on clearly identifiable genetic and cultural grounds, that enabled people (with their opinions and perspective) to navigate the world.  To this opposing view if government and legal precedence accepted this racial mixing it would validate that as a form of perfectly reasonable individual choice, in violation of prior norms.  In retrospect it was the norms that had to go, but it probably wasn't so clear at the time, or at least not universally accepted.

To be clear I have two mixed race kids; my wife is Thai, and I'm white and American.  Of course I don't see them as a threat to how others arrange their worldviews, or see their existence as somehow less valid than anyone else's.


where that other direction led, to happy families with more mixed genetics


Matt Walsh sees a related individual choice as a threat, just in regards to gay people forming families, and taking up the formal role as a married couple instead.  Is there anything remotely valid about his perspective?  Not really, as a broad imperative that should be applied to everyone who identifies as gay, but he still might have a reasonable point, just not necessarily the one he's trying to make.


Erosion of social constructs


The isolated race theme some conservatives were promoting in the middle of the 20th century in the US surely didn't work out, but it must be hard to identify how that impacted the US.  Even if someone could tie negative social trends back to this causal input, for example to try to link racial mixing with crime rates, which would be impossible, there is no way that this ever should have trumped individual free choice, that inter-racial marriage should have stayed illegal to maintain some positive social order or common good.  That's Nazi stuff.  This is actually still the main tenet of modern white supremacists; they want other people to stop marrying between races, because it suits their preferences.  Too bad for them, that no one really cares what they prefer, beyond taking active steps to make sure that their views are not influential related to government policies. 

What if a current US social movement was sweeping aside or altering a lot of social constructs at the same time, not just perspectives on race and gender preference, but also gender related roles, what it means to be male or female, related to family structure definition, stability of gender definition across extended time periods (the trans and gender fluid issues), and also how people self-define as employees, citizens, local residents, and so on?  Couldn't that potentially build up to be a more serious problem than any one issue?

Maybe.  Analyzing this is problematic though.  Even if it wasn't a problem to understand these influences, even if these social transitions and cultural cause and effect sequences could be sorted out, identified as they inter-relate, and mapped from causes to final effects, it still wouldn't necessarily tie back to a firm grounds for limiting personal choices.  But let's set that concern aside; how would it be remotely possible to identify any one input's effect?  Let's try a hypothetical test case, not necessarily one that is going to shed light on this, but to help consider how one to one mapping of one change might get started, and why it would have trouble even getting started.

What if we could analyze two relatively identical societies in relation to just one easily identifiable social role and practice related parameter input; that might work.  Let's see if maybe we could consider divorce rate alone in two very comparable countries; maybe it's possible to trace likely outcome patterns from that social input, and maybe the US and Canada could work as examples.  Here's a graph to get us started:




That's from 2013, reported in 2016, and the US and Canada aren't on there (cited as currently 2.3 and 2.1 divorces per 1000, respectively, per Google results, so a bit on the higher side).  What does that even mean, since we are more accustomed to the rougher stat and half of all US marriages end in divorce?  This bullet summary probably helps:


  • The current divorce rate in the US is 2.3 persons per 1,000 people.
  • Overall, the rate of divorces in America is falling.
  • Divorces amongst people aged 50+ years are rising.
  • Fewer couples choose to marry than pre-1990.
  • The US divorce rate is the third-highest in the world.
  • There were around 630,000 divorces in the US in 2020.


Ok then; there is some real social role and practice change.  It does seem like it makes some sense that in the long term that roughly half of all US marriages end in divorce, even though we're not really seeing that stat form there.  Comparing 2.1 and 2.3% does show a difference, off by 10%, but it's probably not enough to serve as a basis for vague guesses about outcomes.  Comparing family stability and then further outcomes between places like the US, Guam, and Peru (at opposite ends of that scale) is also problematic, because so many other cultural differences would factor in.  It could help to compare standardized test results for children with married and separated parents across different countries, and if a clear pattern showed up in spite of the cultural differences then maybe that would help narrow down real, single cause related impact.

Of course this hypothetical study example is still a bit problematic.  Back at the level of guessing causes for the divorce rates at a glance, no trends seem to jump out related to developed or less developed countries having higher divorce rates, and so on.  There is a lot of bunching up of stats between the 2.0 and 2.3 levels in the US and Canada.  That earlier cited claim that "the US divorce rate is the third highest in the world" seems a bit questionable, based on this other set of stats, but so what if Guam, Aruba, Belarus and the others really do have a much higher level rate; what would that tell us?  I suppose if societal conventions are breaking down this might work as a bell-weather indicator, but even if it could we probably couldn't support that through clear analysis and justification, working back to why (eg. if race, religion, or gender preference concerns are a significant cause).

If a stat that is so easily accessible remains problematic to treat much in terms of cause and effect analysis themes like gay marriage and the impact of trans-gender self-identification must be all the more so.


Considering divorce rates in Thailand


Let's shift over into the opposite extreme, ungrounded hearsay input, versus analyzing clear stats; since I've just lived in a foreign country and culture let's consider how I interpret social changes having an impact here in relation to in the US.

Divorce seems pretty common, to me, but that's a little too anecdotal.  My wife's mother (who is elderly, closing in on 80) had 4 siblings, and one didn't marry, three were divorced, and she was widowed, but maybe her own marriage would've held up if not, leading to a 75% divorce rate in their example.  One source goes further, claiming that a general rate was 27% in 2006, and 39% in 2016.  Looking at other stats and sources doesn't narrow that to a clear number per 1000, to match with what I've mentioned so far.

It does seem to disrupt family member's lives, of course, in those examples I've witnessed.  My wife has four closer cousins, and one we're not in such close touch with, and half of those four have been divorced.  It adds complexity and stress for their children to grow up in divided households, or to live with brothers and sisters from different parents.  The cousin that isn't close is from the first wife of an uncle we aren't in touch with; those kinds of ties are impacted.

It's hard to get any feel for general status related to other changes in relation to marriage practices, for example if the impact of increased gay marriage is causing any negative effects, for example if that status is stressful and problematic, as growing up in divided household can be.  Gay people can't legally marry in Thailand, so that's going to throw off collecting any stats.  I don't know that incidence of non-heterosexual identification is necessarily higher or lower in Thailand, but there is a very culturally embedded and accepted male to female identification change, with the opposite seemingly less common, but also well accepted.  Thais don't seem very homophobic, to me; the few gay people I've worked with were treated exactly like everyone else.

Although all this didn't lead anywhere, as considering inter-racial marriage didn't, to me it's still interesting pursuing these thought-model parallels a bit.  We will surely never sort out a final societal negative impact (and positive outcomes) from more widespread gay marriage, but perhaps we can learn from comparing it to other related and better known circumstances.  If there is no way to clearly identify cause and effect for broad trends like divorce rate changes then acting on a presumed possible cause for family structure instability would make no sense, because even if we could accurately isolate a likely potential future cause (eg. society "supporting" gay marriage) we could never really place to what extent that ever happened (acting as a real cause), or didn't happen.  

Of course that's still avoiding a main concern:  gay couples can have kids whether or not legal protections and benefits of marriage apply to them.  It's not likely that slightly more favorable tax deduction options would tip the balance for such decisions.


How could the US government attempt to resolve a "problem" like a high divorce rate, if it came to be seen as problematic?  That's a tough one.  Applying the opposite of tax incentives, some sort of penalties, probably wouldn't work.  Offer counseling?  It's just not the place of government to get involved at this level.


Gender fluidity as an extreme case


Let's go further with what I'm trying to get at.  This seems like as extreme a case in current self-definitions shifts as we are seeing, with some people rejecting that they should adopt any consistent time-frame gender self-definition role at all, not just in terms of gender neutrality (not participating), but related to form of consistent, active identification.  What impact will this have on the stability of society, or an ability for someone to serve as a role model for developing children?

There's no clear way to tell, of course.  As far as society goes I think offending sensibilities and not meeting expectations might be the main impact.  Gender neutrality has the same effect; people just don't know how to place that.  And they don't need to know, unless it somehow becomes relevant to them.  Matt Walsh gave a good example of how that might work in that podcast discussion, just not in that clip, describing a negative experience in referring to a person working in a coffee shop as male, a bearded individual wearing a dress.  That person was offended, and corrected him.  

Relatively little impact there, but Joe and Matt went on to discuss how adding preferred pronouns to their work email footer impacts them.  Really, does it?  Seemingly not; this turns back to sensibilities.  If someone could be processed through HR reaction for mis-gendering, and eventually fired for this, then that's a more practical effect.  If what Matt Walsh said had been a crime, responding "thanks, bro," instead of just "thanks" that's another example of when real impact could apply.

It would take impact and outcomes pushing on to this next level for new forms of confusion and inability to relate to have a next level of real effect.  That gets tricky, because as societal protections ramp up to match average personal acceptance level those legal implications will enter in as well.  It could become very difficult not to "mis-gender" people who were changing self-designation day to day, or difficult to interpret where it all should naturally leave off, if people are adopting non-human identification along with new forms of gender identity, eg. identifying as an animal type, elf, or fairy.  It could sound absurd now but new practices and social norms could need to evolve along with new forms of identification and expression.

It goes without saying that society as a whole trying to prevent anyone from entering into relationships or having children is taking a couple of extra very problematic steps.


Considering differences between two cultures and nationalities


It's very difficult to separate different levels of social changes and outcomes across two different cultures.  Since I just spent two months living back in Honolulu, where I went to grad school, and since I'm in constant online contact with US culture, I can share some impressions related to how changes have real impact, related to here in Thailand, where these changes are slower to occur (accepting that these self-definition changes will also happen here, which is not necessarily a given).  For the most part they really don't seem to shift culture in terms of changing how people inter-relate, to me, beyond a myriad of these isolated cases adding up to real net effect.  

Within certain parts of US society, in sub-culture groups, and probably even industries, there would be real teeth to these new applied demands to observe new norms.  Actors need to adopt or support certain social perspectives, for example, or company cultures can evolve towards shared perspectives, and can certainly prune out staff who don't observe those.  Beyond that it's probably these sorts of hypothetical discussions, up until something like a legal right to marry completely shifts that.

Again, to be clear, Thailand is not undergoing this related social change, per my understanding.  It's coming; according to my son early teenagers are so well exposed to these ideas that it's now just a matter of time until that generation carries their new self-definition range on to adult perspectives and practices.  In not facing the issues yet, for these new perspectives and self-definitions not being taken up, the complications and negative outcomes also don't arise.  To be clear I'm not talking about people self-identifying as gay or trans-gender; those things are normal in Thailand, and have been for some time.  I'm still projecting ahead to how other related changes may cycle through to other kinds of impact, eg. enforced gender pronoun use laws.


A completely unrelated observation that I made just yesterday shows how this kind of input could be almost impossible to isolate, for some types of culture changes being gradual, or relating mainly to background conditions or "feel."  I'm going to try to use this example to explain how a general culture-based "feel" varies, which is difficult to achieve.

My wife and I were in an informal market area, eating dinner in an outdoor food court sort of area, with lights hanging to outline the area, food trucks or stands serving the food, and loud music playing.  In the US I had only seen food trucks mirroring this sort of environment, and that only recently, on the last stay in Hawaii (it wasn't there 15 years ago, or probably open to local licensing).  I'm not claiming that Thai and developing-world culture is influencing the US; in fact the opposite.  That sort of chaotic, vibrant, loud, uncontrolled environment didn't remind me of any experience I'd ever had in the US; it just felt different.  I suppose it was closest to the feeling at an event, let's say at a large sports event, or state fair type environment.  There is more structure and shared intentional context there, but the dynamic feel is somewhat comparable.

It couldn't be more normal in places like Bangkok sidewalks, or old-style markets.  It reminded me of how one main observation from a single visit to Europe a very long time ago was that societies there were much more orderly, quieter, and more reserved.  Not Eastern Europe, I don't mean; beyond the Czech Republic we only visited the Western parts.  That was generally a positive thing, that public environments were much cleaner and better organized, and people were more reserved.  It just felt a little odd, being accustomed to less restrictive and louder American experience.  

Thailand is a couple of steps further into chaos, culturally.  And that's generally a good thing too, ironically.  There is essentially no crime at all, in comparison with US urban environments, and a lot changes when you cut off that mapping of rough edges and poverty linking to a lack of safety.  A high degree of comfortable feeling enters in, when restrictions drop away, and noise picks up, with no real downside in terms of what might happen that's negative.  Traffic risk is much worse; you have to be careful of that, and that's about it.

In the US political issue tension combines with these varying contexts and cultural shifts.  Some of it all is just about perceptions and expectations, one broad group not liking another, but then real impacts do adjoin all that.  Real violence comes up.  Someone can get shot in a road-rage incident in Thailand too, but road rage is a much less common theme.  Everyone drives so poorly all the time it's just the norm.  It's rare for people to use a horn because that's regarded as poor form, but people almost crash into each other continually; that's just what driving experience is.  I've only been in one accident in 15 years here though, when the mud-flap of a truck grazed our car due to passing too close when we were turning at an intersection.


Where was I going with all this?  Broader cultural context is a funny thing, not something easy to isolate.  Splitting out individual inputs and change effects is going to be problematic when cultural context baselines are so complex themselves.  Some degree and types of chaos can seem good, and others can be very problematic.  The tension and political perspective divide in the US isn't a universal theme, and legal restrictions mapping to every point of personal perspective also isn't.   

Thailand is quite openly accepting of gay and transgender status, but there is no same sex marriage in Thailand.  This relates to a generally conservative approach to application of laws, and the government trying to just stay out of it.  I don't think there ever were legally mandated protections related to gender, race, or ethnic status either; society was given free reign to sort all that out instead.  That's a trade-off; problematic special cases would occur without such protections, some people treated unfairly, while the entire range of problems from mandating equal rights also drops out.

It's probably going to seem like none of that connected, as much as I see it all as linked.  What is the running thread between informal food courts set up under elevated highways tying back to societal protections and perspective of gay people?  Less formal and restricted social order seems to be a normal earlier state in the development of societies.  At the other extreme perhaps European societies are much more orderly, clearly role-defined, and rigid, which has to bring in positive aspects at a cost.  The chaotic state of people doing whatever they want to do is nice, in terms of freedom and openness, but then negative patterns evolve that society tries to make adjustments for.  Maybe gays being married is not at all a good example of this; it doesn't seem to parallel the natural need to set speed limits on roads or to control food safety through laws and inspection steps.


Conclusions


The final point, as much as there is one, is that dictating culture, perspective, and individual behavior is problematic.  You can't really isolate broad cultural shifts and then identify clear outcomes that result from those.  No one can say if allowing mixed race marriages proved to be a positive or negative input to US culture, in terms of some vague well-being metric.  Surely providing people with reasonable rights was a positive change.  

It also doesn't work well to identify clear outcomes of culture-based choice trends through stats, or by comparing one aspect of one country to another, broadly mapping different cultures.  "Allowing" gay marriages probably has no more impact than allowing mixed race marriages did, but even if there was some negative outcome (eg. higher divorce rate, children experiencing problems due to drawing on more diverse role model forms) it seems in this case access to equal rights is still the primary concern.  

If 25% of all Americans drop out of traditional gender based self-image roles that will have significant impact on US culture, but no one will ever really be able to separate that out as a cause of other individual effects.  The US economy is already in serious long term decline, which surely no one can contest, and that cause will have greater impact on US society than almost any other individual factors.  That one over-arching factor, along with issues of unequal distribution of wealth, will have more impact than people deciding that they want to switch genders, or not adopt one, or keep switching that self-definition around.

Conservatives in general would be uncomfortable with people being gay or trans.  My own parents are completely liberal, except with regards to this one point.  They just can't accept that as a valid norm, that men might be attracted to men, and women to women.  As committed liberals maybe they can't go as far as Matt Walsh does, and say that marriage should be restricted to straight couples, although maybe they could, supporting use of the term "civil union" instead, accepting equivalent rights but not use of "their word."  

My parents would be open to offering gays equivalent tax benefits, and legal protections related to divorce processing and inheritance, which shifts the issue back into purely semantic range.  My parents would base that preference for word use on a perspective informed by religion, where it seems that maybe people like Matt Walsh see societies' endorsement of taking on social roles as grounded elsewhere, as supporting positive forms (what he sees as positive), leading to better outcomes (what he projects as probably better).  His framing and read are problematic on every level.  All the same thinking through broader related patterns and why he is uncomfortable seems interesting, to think through the next level of underlying context.